Showing posts with label Catholic parenting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Catholic parenting. Show all posts

Thursday, January 31, 2013

Oh, the memories......




I had a fun day at work yesterday.  Well, every day is fun -- but this one was extra special.  We had a client come in our office that I  had not met before.  Dan was busy finishing a few things up before he met with him, so I started chatting with him and his wife (imagine that!).

I noted right away that he was wearing a War Veterans ball cap and made a mental note to ask him what was he fought in.  We were discussing if they would like coffee while they waited when they explained to me they had just taken their "break" at home before they came.  (They stop what they are doing and come together to have coffee or some other liquid refreshment together!)

He started talking about how it saddens him that he is getting old enough that he needs to take these breaks. He mentioned that when he was in the Korean War, he would be out and about for hours and hours and hours and never once stop.  (Mental note checked off.)

He went on to say that when he worked for Sidney Electric and Area Energy that he would work 9-10-11 hour days without batting an eye -- he would be tired when he got home, but he could handle it.

Whoa!  I exclaimed -- you worked for Sidney Electric AND you were in the Korean War?  You have to have known my daddy, Harold Goettemoeller.  Did you?

Immediately, a smile crossed his face.  "Oh, yes, I knew your dad.  Very well.  The old cuss!"

We proceeded to spend the next 5 or 10 minutes talking about Dad and his ornry ways at work.  I mentioned to him that I have been having strong urges lately to "fix" signs (Dad was well known for "improving" signs to add things that were funny) -- and he chuckled all over again.  He spoke of how he and dad used to spar over tractors (Dad was a to-the-bone John Deere guy -- nothing else; this man was an International Harvester guy.)  He mentioned that he told Dad one time that he had a John Deere lawn mower and Dad said that he had come over to the John Deere side.  The guy responded that he hadn't but.....John Deere was good at making lawn mowers but nothing bigger!  LOL

I've been smiling since that conversation.  I hope that gentleman has, too.

I've noticed that many times when people speak of my parents, a smile crosses their face.

I'm trying to live my life so that when I'm gone, the same thing happens.  I hope I'm on the right path!



Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Tucking In.....

Every once in a while, I am the FIRST ONE in bed at our house (mostly on a weekend, and probably once per year!)......


I actually LOVE to be the first one in bed, because then , everyone has to tuck me in!!!  :)  It's fun to see what the kids do -- literally tuck the covers in around me, or just cover me up, or give me a hug and a kiss.  It really doesn't matter to me, because I love all of it!!!  And truthfully, they love it, too (OK, maybe the older girls notsomuch!)

The other night I was given such a treat.  It got me to thinking (because I was in bed WAY earlier than I'm used to, so I could, you know -- get tucked in!).....about rituals and how much I love them!  Tucking in, saying prayers, the hugs and kisses before leaving for school.  We tend to take those things for granted, because we hear or say them every day, but they are a beautiful part of our everyday lives!  :)  What a gift it is to give to our kids to look forward to each day.

I know sometimes we get rushed and maybe don't get all the way into a particular ritual on a day, and I feel badly about it.  I work really  hard at making the time for the next day!

What are your rituals at your house?  Share -- maybe we can find some more!  :)